When Coaching Becomes a Substitute
There are multiple factors that go into whether or not coaching will be impactful. The impulse is to only look at the coachability of the potential coachee to measure potential success. However, coaching can fail when an organization tries to use it to solve a problem that was never really about that person at all.
If coaching doesn’t produce an improved process, a healthier team, or a solved structural problem, that should serve as a reminder of what coaching is actually built to do: work on the person in the room. When the presenting problem doesn’t live inside that person, coaching can succeed completely on its own terms and still leave the underlying organizational issue untouched.
What This Looks Like in Practice
The Dale Carnegie Institute’s coaching practice has documented a version of this. One client, BCM Insurance, saw a team grow disjointed and lose communication skills after a shift to hybrid work. The instinct typically would be to coach the individuals whose communication seemed to be slipping. Instead, the organization recognized the pattern for what it was: a culture-wide breakdown following a structural change, not a cluster of individual shortcomings. It invested in rebuilding trust and collaboration across the whole team rather than coaching one or two people in isolation.
That distinction sums up the whole concept. A leader labeled as having “communication challenges” might genuinely need coaching. Or, it could be indicative of unclear decision rights, conflicting directives from multiple supervisors, or an unclearly defined mandate. Coaching can make that leader more self-aware and more articulate without changing a single one of those structural concerns.
The Gap Between Feeling Better and Doing Different
Leadership researcher Mark Murphy pointed out the same divide from another angle in Forbes Magazine. He noted after reviewing a large body of coaching outcome research that studies consistently show coaching improving self-awareness, resilience, and communication skill at the individual level, yet far fewer studies find clear evidence of organizational-level change. Murphy explains that translating an internal shift into a different organizational outcome depends on factors outside the coaching conversation itself, such as how goals are designed, whether stakeholders are aligned, and whether the organization actually supports the change. A leader can leave a coaching session with real insight and still run the same meetings, send the same mixed signals, and let the same priorities drift, simply because nothing in the surrounding system asked anything different of them.
Considerations Before Coaching
Before investing in a coaching program, here are some key points to consider to make sure coaching can resolve what needs to be addressed:
- Interview the role before the person. Before referring someone to coaching, ask two or three people who have held that role, or a similar one, whether they had experience the same friction. If the answer is yes, it’s likely the problem isn’t unique to this person.
- Check whether authority matches accountability. If someone is being held responsible for outcomes when they don’t actually have the decision rights or resources to control, coaching won’t close that gap. This needs to be addressed within the organizational chart or with a leadership mandate.
- Look sideways before looking down. If more than one person on a team presents with the same concern (communication, follow-through, collaboration), try treating it as a team or culture signal instead of simply a coincidence of individual weaknesses.
- Separate the presenting problem from the root one. Write down the complaint as given (“poor communication,” “not strategic enough”), and then ask what specific, observable behavior it is describing. Structural issues tend to hide in vague labels.
- Name what success would look like at the organizational as well as the individual level. If the only measurable outcome of coaching would be the person feeling more confident, that’s a sign that the real goal may need to be found elsewhere.
- Revisit the diagnosis a quarter after coaching starts. If the coachee has visibly grown yet the original complaint hasn’t shown improvement, that’s evidence that something outside of the coaching relationship still needs attention.
A Different Diagnostic
All of this is to say that while coaching can be highly effective for many, it may be the wrong tool for some of the problems it gets assigned to. Before referring someone to a coach, it’s worth going through this checklist first to confirm if coaching is likely to be effective.
The “Before You Refer Someone to Coaching” Checklist:
- Name the specific, observable behavior, not just a label or vague complaints
- Confirm that the person has the authority over what are being held accountable for
- Check whether this pattern shows up in in others placed in the same role
- Define what organizational (not just personal) change would indicate success
This list applies well beyond the executive level—a first-line supervisor labeled “resistant to feedback” and a department head labeled “not strategic enough” can both be facing the same mismatch between what’s asked of them and what they’re actually equipped or empowered to do. Getting that diagnosis right, before the coaching engagement even starts, is what determines whether the investment lands on the right problem in the first place.
Have you tried to use coaching to solve an organizational problem? Have you been through coaching and haven’t seen a change?
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